Many people only realize the value of their parents after they are gone. Attending my father's seventh memorial service reminded me of how much wisdom and connection one person can leave behind.
My father's seventh memorial service was held today.
Time passes quickly. I have almost forgotten that he passed away during the COVID-19 pandemic.
These days, I often find myself wishing I could ask my father for advice. At this age, there are still many things I would like to discuss with him.
Only now do I truly understand how much his presence meant to me.
Sixteen relatives gathered for the service today. It was a respectable turnout.
In terms of age, the order was my mother, my uncle, and then me.
At some point, I realized that I had become one of the oldest members of the family. The thought quietly crossed my mind that my own turn may not be so far away.
Yet gatherings like this are possible because of occasions such as memorial services—and because of the people who brought our families together in the first place.
In that sense, today's gathering was made possible by my father.
I hope our relatives will continue to stay close and support one another for many years to come.
Sometimes, the people who continue to bring us together are those who are no longer here.
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Vocabulary for Learners
memorial service 追悼法要、法事
We attended a memorial service for our grandfather.
presence 存在、存在感
Her presence made everyone feel comfortable.
respectable turnout 立派な参加人数、良い出席率
The event attracted a respectable turnout despite the rain.
cross one's mind ふと思い浮かぶ
The idea crossed my mind while I was walking home.
bring people together 人々を結びつける
Family celebrations bring people together.
endure 続く、持続する
True friendships endure over time.
across generations 世代を超えて
Some traditions are passed down across generations.
support one another 互いに支え合う
Family members should support one another during difficult times.
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